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Thursday, September 18, 2008

Relationships: The Most Important Aspects


Many Types of Relationships

Starting, maintaining and improving relationship are the most important aspects of life.

There are lots of relationships like husband and wife, boy and girl about to marry, parents and children, between siblings etc.

Here, at this point of time, we are going to consider the relationship
  • between husband and wife
  • between a boy and a girl deciding to marry
Let us look at the most important factors that are conducive to maintain and strengthen these relationships.

Most Important Aspects in These Relationships
  • The husband-wife (already married or having decided to marry) is the most beautiful relationship. Nurture it carefully. Do not permit any one else (who so ever he or she or they may be) to create a crevice (rift) in it
  • Mutual respect
  • Mutual trust
  • Respectful communication (do not confuse it by being submissive)
  • Maintain equal status relationship. Do not exert one-upmanship (or one-upwomanship) on the other. It's not competition; it's pure companionship all the way
  • Mutual consideration and caring
  • Support each other in trying (difficult) times more particularly
  • Genuineness
  • Finding qualities in each other and not faults (and not keep correcting the faults in the other) and frequently, demonstratively, appreciating or admiring those qualities
  • Love and affection: also, demonstrate frequently
  • Friendship
  • Giving each other some private space
  • Don't keep nagging the other; it can get on other's nerves
  • Mutually satisfying physical relationship (This is strictly applicable only to already married couples. It is strictly "No" for yet to marry couples)